PLEASURES OF RETIRED LIFE

The golden period of your life starts when you retire from the active service or from active business/profession. This is the period when you can enjoy the Life as per your own choice and with full freedom without any worries, provided:-

  • You have Settled all your liabilities during the active period of your life.
  • Your children have settled professionally and personally.
  • You have a place to live which you can call your own Home; with your family who cares for you.
  • You have suitable pension or an accumulated pension fund to meet your needs.
  • And above all, You and Your spouse have maintained Good Health and a good understanding of each other.

If you look back to your pre-retirement days; You were so tight scheduled and having no time for your life partner, no time for family trips or even pilgrimage. You were always requesting leaves so that you could share time with your loved ones but the boss always frowned upon you with most typical lines,”You have so much of  pending work, how can you even think of going on leave???” and You listened to all this with a bowed head out of sheer compulsion. Your blood pressure rose during supervisor’s visits and his reprimands. The multitasking activities both in office and at home kept you under constant stress. Even when you tried to calm your mind through meditation and tried your best to concentrate, you couldn’t because the angry face of your boss always occupied the upper layers of your mind. You were more loyal to the ticking sound of your clock or the office or factory siren than anything else in this universe.

Now the Life is completely different after retirement, you are free from all those shackles, pulls and pressures? Don’t you now feel yourself nearer to GOD than ever before? Now you have enough time for everything of your choice. Now you are the boss of your own wishes and wills. You are now a free bird, so enjoy your flight of life like a bird. Keep on chirping, land at places you like, eat what you like to eat, and dance with your partner the way you both like.

Now, this is the time for you to enjoy the fruits and charms of freedom. Is not this amazing that the entire twenty-four hours of the day and all three hundred sixty-five and a quarter days of the year are your’s and your’s only? Every day is a holiday; a holiday for which you had to wait for five to six days in a week and you were never sure if the boss would call you on holiday for some urgent work. All your plans to enjoy on the weekly off used to be marred by such compulsions. Now no compulsions, as you are boss of your own self, so enjoy, enjoy and enjoy only. Remove all, from the life that comes between you and your happiness, your peace of mind, and GOD; be it a dispute, grudge, hate, anger or a complex.

Always try to remain happy and fearless. Don’t interfere in the affairs of others especially your own children. You may give advice if asked for, but let them have their own way. Don’t try to squeeze the generation gap as it will generate reactions and disturb your and family harmony.

Always be on the path of truth and don’t fear anything, not even your death. Whatever has to happen will happen; you can’t change it, then why worry; face it smilingly. At the same time don’t take much liberty of your freedom because everything will not happen as per your choice  Everyone can’t have similar choices and wishes, these differ from person to person, so let GOD decide what to do for you. The BIG BOSS is boss of the whole universe and loves us all. He takes care of all of us so don’t doubt his intentions. The best is, to surrender before Him and live to His will. You can’t change circumstances but you can change your attitude, so change it according to the times and always remain positive.

You are at the ripe age, so remember that you are the most beautiful human being. A fruit is more beautiful when it is ripe and so are you. Feel this beauty inside and outside you. Don’t expose yourself to risks such as investments in share markets, crypto currencies, Ponzi schemes or in any scheme of volatile nature because a ripe fruit can’t afford to withstand the winds and jerks of risks.

You are now more close to nature. Grow plants and watch them sprout out of the soil, and then growing into plants with tiny and shining leaves, flowering with magnificent colors and then bearing fruits and seeds. The pearl-like tiny dew drops on the leaves of plants and the grass in the morning are an amazing miracle to see.

Some people complain that they have too much spare time so they get bored. Getting bored in the twenty-first century is an impossible proposition. Make use of eighth and ninth wonders of the world if you luckily have both. The eighth wonder is your spouse who in spite being illiterate or less qualified, or even more qualified than you, remained with you through thick and thin when all nears and dears left you in adversity. You at this age have an exceptional understanding of each other. No one understands your mood, feelings and needs better than your better half. How beautifully she/he adjusts to every situation however difficult it may be. Is not that great wonder?

Your mobile phone is the ninth wonder of the world. Through the internet, you remain connected with the whole world. You can have any information available with the touch of a button. You can play games, read books of all types, see pictures of cities and places of the world over, watch movies and listen to music of your choice, share greetings and other messages with your friends and talk face to face with your relatives and friends living in any part of the globe.

So enjoy your retired life in a Smart Way. Don’t remain stuck to TV or mobile phone or your bed. Go for morning and evening walks even if for short distances. Do talk to and play with your grandchildren whenever you are with them. Play with kids of your locality. This will bring freshness and spirit of youthfulness in you.

You are lucky if you are enjoying Retired life, so thank God and keep smiling, meet friends, associates. Do some social service for the society without any considerations. Each day is a bonus for you. No one knows how much time we will get to stay in this beautiful world, so make the best use of whatever little time you have at your disposal. Do as much good as you can and remain as much contended as possible.

 

 

 

 

 

Author: Kuldeep Kumar Sharma

I am an Ex-banker having 38 years of experience in different fields and capacities in banking and social life. I started the career at a very humble position and ended at a senior position of President of the bank.

4 thoughts on “PLEASURES OF RETIRED LIFE”

  1. A significant affair is for lucky one to reach to a point of your articled content, I have seen some exceptions like people lying in Old aged homes, large building, which were once their sweet homes and even have seen some high ranked officers, whose nears and dears like sons are not in terms with them, then their retired life is somewhat special. In this backdrop, Some cautions need to be added to your wonderful write up like;
    1. Where you have keeping left to mix-up in the crowed and form passage, now ensure to keep right to face opposite traffic, or you can be hit from back while keeping left.
    2. Do not use hooks to doors of your room , bathroom and almirahs so that you and your belongings are easily accessible.
    3. Make your two friends at least close and acquainted of your habits & references.
    4. Make a habit to share discussion desk at a particular time and venue.
    5. Always Share pleasing and gifts with your grand children and keep visiting them regularly.

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