PLEASURES OF RETIRED LIFE

The golden period of your life starts when you retire from the active service or from active business/profession. This is the period when you can enjoy the Life as per your own choice and with full freedom without any worries, provided:-

  • You have Settled all your liabilities during the active period of your life.
  • Your children have settled professionally and personally.
  • You have a place to live which you can call your own Home; with your family who cares for you.
  • You have suitable pension or an accumulated pension fund to meet your needs.
  • And above all, You and Your spouse have maintained Good Health and a good understanding of each other.

If you look back to your pre-retirement days; You were so tight scheduled and having no time for your life partner, no time for family trips or even pilgrimage. You were always requesting leaves so that you could share time with your loved ones but the boss always frowned upon you with most typical lines,”You have so much of  pending work, how can you even think of going on leave???” and You listened to all this with a bowed head out of sheer compulsion. Your blood pressure rose during supervisor’s visits and his reprimands. The multitasking activities both in office and at home kept you under constant stress. Even when you tried to calm your mind through meditation and tried your best to concentrate, you couldn’t because the angry face of your boss always occupied the upper layers of your mind. You were more loyal to the ticking sound of your clock or the office or factory siren than anything else in this universe.

Now the Life is completely different after retirement, you are free from all those shackles, pulls and pressures? Don’t you now feel yourself nearer to GOD than ever before? Now you have enough time for everything of your choice. Now you are the boss of your own wishes and wills. You are now a free bird, so enjoy your flight of life like a bird. Keep on chirping, land at places you like, eat what you like to eat, and dance with your partner the way you both like.

Now, this is the time for you to enjoy the fruits and charms of freedom. Is not this amazing that the entire twenty-four hours of the day and all three hundred sixty-five and a quarter days of the year are your’s and your’s only? Every day is a holiday; a holiday for which you had to wait for five to six days in a week and you were never sure if the boss would call you on holiday for some urgent work. All your plans to enjoy on the weekly off used to be marred by such compulsions. Now no compulsions, as you are boss of your own self, so enjoy, enjoy and enjoy only. Remove all, from the life that comes between you and your happiness, your peace of mind, and GOD; be it a dispute, grudge, hate, anger or a complex.

Always try to remain happy and fearless. Don’t interfere in the affairs of others especially your own children. You may give advice if asked for, but let them have their own way. Don’t try to squeeze the generation gap as it will generate reactions and disturb your and family harmony.

Always be on the path of truth and don’t fear anything, not even your death. Whatever has to happen will happen; you can’t change it, then why worry; face it smilingly. At the same time don’t take much liberty of your freedom because everything will not happen as per your choice  Everyone can’t have similar choices and wishes, these differ from person to person, so let GOD decide what to do for you. The BIG BOSS is boss of the whole universe and loves us all. He takes care of all of us so don’t doubt his intentions. The best is, to surrender before Him and live to His will. You can’t change circumstances but you can change your attitude, so change it according to the times and always remain positive.

You are at the ripe age, so remember that you are the most beautiful human being. A fruit is more beautiful when it is ripe and so are you. Feel this beauty inside and outside you. Don’t expose yourself to risks such as investments in share markets, crypto currencies, Ponzi schemes or in any scheme of volatile nature because a ripe fruit can’t afford to withstand the winds and jerks of risks.

You are now more close to nature. Grow plants and watch them sprout out of the soil, and then growing into plants with tiny and shining leaves, flowering with magnificent colors and then bearing fruits and seeds. The pearl-like tiny dew drops on the leaves of plants and the grass in the morning are an amazing miracle to see.

Some people complain that they have too much spare time so they get bored. Getting bored in the twenty-first century is an impossible proposition. Make use of eighth and ninth wonders of the world if you luckily have both. The eighth wonder is your spouse who in spite being illiterate or less qualified, or even more qualified than you, remained with you through thick and thin when all nears and dears left you in adversity. You at this age have an exceptional understanding of each other. No one understands your mood, feelings and needs better than your better half. How beautifully she/he adjusts to every situation however difficult it may be. Is not that great wonder?

Your mobile phone is the ninth wonder of the world. Through the internet, you remain connected with the whole world. You can have any information available with the touch of a button. You can play games, read books of all types, see pictures of cities and places of the world over, watch movies and listen to music of your choice, share greetings and other messages with your friends and talk face to face with your relatives and friends living in any part of the globe.

So enjoy your retired life in a Smart Way. Don’t remain stuck to TV or mobile phone or your bed. Go for morning and evening walks even if for short distances. Do talk to and play with your grandchildren whenever you are with them. Play with kids of your locality. This will bring freshness and spirit of youthfulness in you.

You are lucky if you are enjoying Retired life, so thank God and keep smiling, meet friends, associates. Do some social service for the society without any considerations. Each day is a bonus for you. No one knows how much time we will get to stay in this beautiful world, so make the best use of whatever little time you have at your disposal. Do as much good as you can and remain as much contended as possible.

 

 

 

 

 

LIFE

Life is a complex issue to understand. It is the best gift bestowed upon us, including all creation by the GOD. When we cant fully understand the design of his creation then how will we be able to understand Life with our little knowledge and intellect. However life can be defined as the absence of death, and death is the end of life. There is, therefore, something which goes off from living beings and causes death.

We believe that death happens or we can say life ends because of accidents, disease, heart attacks, bullets and bombs, tsunami, and natural calamities. Do everyone lose life when there is spread of disease, or there is an epidemic or accident, or there is war, or during a tsunami or natural calamity? Many people and creatures survive in spite all these happenings; don’t they? Some people traveling in same bus or train survive while others die, Many survived even during the Atom bomb attack on Hiroshima and Nagasaki. All marine life and plant, trees do not get uprooted or killed during great tsunamis.

Life sustains during earthquakes, no doubt that it becomes miserable for some and that too is a question, as to WHY?

All this is therefore not a cause to end life. It may be a reason. The birth and death are managed by GOD in a wonderfully styled design. The lifespan of all living creatures is well defined and is certain, in spite all human efforts to increase it. The upper limit is set for all by HIM. For instance, humans have a maximum of 100 years as the upper limit with some rare exceptions of few years. In spite of so much advancement in medical science including medicines, the upper age limit has not increased and life remains to be ending within the specified period allotted by GOD. If this is the state of affairs with the humans who consider themselves as TOP OF CREATION or “ASHRAF-AL-MAKHLOOQAAT”, what would be the fate of creatures in other lower categories?  Have we been able to reduce miseries of life, sufferings, pains, depressions, diseases, worries, tensions prejudices, and hate? Why people have different types and different periods of miseries or happiness or pleasures? To understand all this we have to turn to GOD himself, who has through his messengers explained all this as is contained in old scriptures. For understanding this we have to understand as to how life started on our planet.

Scientists believe that during explosions in sun’s molten mass a big and very hot chunk got separated from it, which continued to revolve around its source and with the passage of time its upper-crust cooled down and my contractions on the surface due to cooling, mountains were formed. It looks justifiable but then how was water formed that too in such a large quantity that seas and oceans were formed? How was air having all the useful ingredients and properties for sustaining life formed? Why this didn’t happen on any other known planet? Are not these wonderful mysteries. The theory of Evolution explains that life started in water and the first known living creature was Amoeba. How amoeba evolved, how it got transformed into other forms is not believably explained.

 Human beings are believed to be evolved from monkeys, then why not all monkeys became humans? Why there are still hordes of monkeys available? When will their turn come to become Top of creation?

Messengers of God tell us that all creatures live till there is life current present in them. The moment this life current which is a particle of GOD also known as Aatma, Rooh or Soul is withdrawn, the death takes over. To understand this phenomenon we have to understand the formation of this universe and ‘Law of Karma’. Scriptures tell us that this universe is made primarily of five elements:

  1. Water (liquids)
  2. Earth (solids)
  3. Air (gases)
  4. Fire (heat)
  5. Sense (sense of comprehension)

There are five main categories of living bodies; Vegetable kingdom, Reptile kingdom, Birds kingdom, Four-legged mammal’s kingdom, and above all, the Human kingdom. All the five categories have lakhs of different types of creatures living in the universe having similar characteristics. They differ in size, shape, color, and characteristics because of the presence of different types of basic elements in them in different proportions. The composition of these categories of living creatures is as under:-

  •  The first to come is the Vegetable kingdom. They have one element present in them i.e Water. All other elements are in very negligible quantity. They remain rooted to the ground and don’t travel distances.
  •  Second, comes the Reptile kingdom which has two elements present in them; Water and Earth and others being in negligible quantity. They too remain on the ground but can move distances by crawling.
  •  Birds kingdom has predominantly three elements present in them; Water, Earth, and Air. They can move on earth and can also fly in the air or swim in water.
  • The fourth being Four-legged animals have four elements present; Water, Earth, Air, and Fire. They remain on earth or in water and have the capacity to run fast.
  •  The Fifth class is that of Humans which have all the five elements in proper proportion present in them. What makes them different from all others is the element of the Sense of Comprehension present in them. They can learn and grow fast. What more they can do differently from others is well known to all of us. Humans are God’s top Creation and next only to him. It has the power to rise and merge with God and attain Salvation, Moksha, Mukti or Nejaat.

We know that all elements forming different categories of life as stated above are against one another. Water extinguishes the fire, fire evaporates water, air flares fire, earth dissolves in water. They don’t remain comfortable with each other. But they remain in complete harmony during their stay in different classes of life: WHY? The answer is the presence of the life current; the soul which keeps them in complete harmony. The moment the soul is withdrawn from the body, the decaying process starts and all these elements slowly and slowly disintegrate.

LAW OF KARMA

Law of karma; As you Sow, so shall you Reap. Every action creates a corresponding karma, good or bad. Why we have different lifespans, why some die as an infant, as a child, in young age and with accident, disease, or other reasons? All this is due to our own karmas. We cant escape results of karma’s and have to bear with them at some point of time most suitable for bearing them. Soul enters different classes of life depending on one’s karmas. Different categories of life and different sufferings are caused by different types of karmas.

PURPOSE OF HUMAN LIFE

Theory of evolution says that human life evolved through a long process of changes from lower life categories i.e. from Vegetable to Reptiles, then to Birds and Mammals and monkeys. True, but why?This all happened as a result of our own karma’s.

People became kings, paupers, laborers, bureaucrats, millionaires only because of their present, past or stored karmas. We the humans rose from lower to higher species and finally reached this top position.What should be our next goal now? What is the purpose of our life? Why God brought us to this life? Do we really understand the purpose of our life? We confuse it with an aim in life and start working to achieve that. Some aim to become kings, some bureaucrats, and industrialists. Some aim to have amazing wealth and for achieving their goal they work really hard and sometimes compromise with the principles of life thus adding to the already existing load of karmas. Our wishes have no limits but the period of stay in life is too short to fulfill all wishes. If all wishes are to be fulfilled then our lifespan should be unlimited but this can’t happen. This results in our rebirth in different species of life where those wishes could be fulfilled and these wishes are a cause of sustaining life in different categories. Just think, if everyone’s wish is to be fulfilled in his present life then the entire balance of nature, as well as systems, will collapse. It is just not possible. We have enjoyed everything very well while in different life categories and got this human life with God’s utmost grace. Our purpose of life should, therefore, be to rise above to next level i.e. GOD. The true purpose of life is to attain salvation, moksha or nejaat, which we can’t do in any other life form and only now in this human life by following the teachings of A PERFECT MASTER. Only they have the power to burn our stores of karmas and help us merge with GOD.