JAMMU AND KASHMIR. A HEAVEN ON EARTH. PART 3

The largest part of Jammu and Kashmir state is Ladakh region situated deep within the mighty Himalayan mountains. A sparsely populated region having only two districts Leh and Kargil having a combined population of about two lakhs comprising mainly of Buddhists, Muslims, and few Christians.

Ladakh is a cold desert with naked mountains all around and all along. A pollution free region deficient in oxygen and vegetation has very vast plain areas within high mountains dotted with green patches here and there on the areas which receive water from the melting glaciers in summers. Because of the absence of pollution, the view of distant mountain ranges is clearly visible and a camera can catch the beautiful pictures of the area with an amazing clarity.

Ladakh has a mixture of Tibetan and Indian culture. People of all faiths are highly religious, tolerant, very simple and gentle. Each village, town, and the city is having Monasteries, Mosques, Churches, and Gurudwaras. People of Ladakh love and respect their culture and have maintained their values till date inspite of the spicy tampering of modernization. Ladakh is full of beauty, festivity, and a colorful environment which is available nowhere in the world except this wonderland.

Places in and around Leh

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Leh Palace situated on a hill overlooking Leh town was built by the king of Leh in the 17th century. From this nine-story high building, you can have an amazing panoramic view of the entire Leh town. The night view of the palace is very charming.

General Zorawar Fort within Leh city was built by Dogra General Zorawar Singh and was the base of Dogra rulers. A mosque and a Hindu temple exist in this fort which is a symbol of Hindu Muslim brotherhood.

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Shanti Stupa built on a hillock in Changspa area of Leh by the Japanese Buddhist appears like a pearl on the barren hill. The view is magnificent especially after the sunset when it glows in the dark with special lights all around it and appears as if the moon has landed on the hill.

You can also see The highest polo ground in the world situated within the city itself. Local Polo teams play matches in this ground and even all public functions are also held here.

Leh airport is a unique airport which is not plane but a sliding one. Landing and take off is possible only from a particular side only; landing from the downside and take off from the higher side of the runway.

Pathar Sahib

Gurudwara Pather Sahib situated some 25 km from Leh on Srinagar Kargil Leh highway was built in 1517 AD in commemoration of the visit of Guru Nanak Dev Ji Maharaj. It is said that earlier it was called Nanak Gompa in the memory of Nanak Lama. A saint or Faqir in the local language is called a Lama. It is said that when Guru Nanak Dev Ji visited this place it was haunted by a big demon who used to torture local people. The people requested Guru Nanak to help them. One day when Guru Nanak was sitting for his meditation the demon saw him and to finish Guru Nanak, he rolled down a huge stone rock from the top of an adjacent hill. The rock came rolling down the hill with great force but stopped the moment it touched Guru Nanak Dev Ji sitting in meditation. The demon was surprised, he came down and tried to press the rock against Guru Nanak with his foot. He was further surprised to find that the rock had melted and his foot was stuck in the melted rock. He begged pardon from Guru Nanak and promised not to harm anyone thereafter. The rock still has an imprint of Guru Nanak Dev Ji Maharaj on it. This Gurudwara is now maintained by Indian Army. Langer Parshad is served to all who visit the Gurudwara.

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Magnetic Hill is believed to have magnetic properties. You keep your vehicle with the engine turned off without brakes on the road, it starts moving uphill slowly. It is believed that the hill nearby having magnetic field attracts the vehicles and they start moving.

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Indus and Zanskar river Confluence between Pather Sahib Gurudwara and village Nimmo can be seen from the national highway itself. One with crystal clear blue waters and the other with brown muddy waters merge together to be one at this place. The site is really worth seeing.

Stok Palace and Stok monastery are in Stok village across Indus river opposit Leh. The King of Leh shifted to this palace after he left Leh palace.

Hall of fame near Leh airport portrays war heroes of Indo Pak and Indo China wars as well as those who laid down their lives in Saichin and Kargil Wars.

Ladakh is filled with Buddhist monasteries which are centers of cultural, spiritual, and traditional values. These heritage places have existed for centuries and are well maintained by local priests called Lamas. These beautiful places have grand idols of Buddha and his incarnations. The grand Tanka paintings on the walls of these monasteries with shining and bright colors are a masterpiece work of local art.

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The main monasteries are, Hemis Monastery is also known as Hemis Gumpa, Thiksey monastery on the hillock at Thiksey village, Likir monastery, Spituk monastery, Stakna monastery, Dikshit monastery, Alchi monastery, Phayang monastery, Takthok monastery, Sumda Chun monastery, and Lamayuru monastery in addition to other numberless monasteries spread all over this heaven.

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Pangong Lake

Two world famous lakes in the Himalayan region exist in Ladakh; Tsomoriri lake and Pan gong lake which is about 80 km in length with blue waters, half is in India and half in China. To reach Pan-gong lake one has to cross Chang-la pass which is second highest motor-able road in the world; the first being too in Ladakh known as Khardungla pass at a height of 17582 feet from the sea level.

Sand Dunes Nubra Valley

White sand dunes at village Hunder in Nubra valley are a wonder on such heights in this Heaven. Double hump camels exist only in this valley in the country. A ride on the double hump camel is an experience worth enjoying and remembering for life.

Moon land on the Lamayuru hills on Kargil Leh national highway is a wonder on earth. These moon lands are situated on the mountains at Lamayuru village which resemble moon’s surface.

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The original Aryan race existed on the banks of Indus river known as Indus valley civilization. This race is believed to still exist in two distinct villages Dah and Hanu in Leh. They have maintained their distinct culture, character, and traditions. They don’t mix with other cultures of Ladakh and have a separate distinct identity. Their appearance is different from the Buddhist/Mongolian race. They have long face and long nose and they support a unique cap fitted with flowers.

During the summers there are very nice local vegetables available in Ladakh such as Turnip, local Reddish, Cauliflower, Peas, Knoll, Broccoli, and Spinach. Generally, ladies sell these fresh vegetables in the market on the footpaths. Turnip and peas of Ladakh are very famous.

The hot springs in this sub-zero zone at Chumathang village in Leh district is a wonder in the area.

Ladakh is also famous for the best Apricots which grow in plenty in the entire region. Leh barries is another wild fruit known for its rich contents of vitamin C.

Chiru

Ladakh is known the world over for the production of famous Pashmina, as well as ShahToosh. Shahtoosh is obtained from a Tibetan Antelope(Chiru), which is now banned because of the danger of extinction of this Antelope. These Shahtoosh shawls made by master craftsmen are priced between Rs 3 to 4 lakhs per piece.

Watching the Sky at night during a full moon night as well as dark moonless night is worth experiencing. During a moonless night, you can see the brightly shining stars, bigger in size than usual in the plains. The milky way which has disappeared from the scene due to a lot of pollution and smoke in the plains is very clearly visible from Leh area. Nights are colder, silent, and free from any disturbances. With sufficient warm clothes or sleeping bag, you lay during a night on the ground in a vast field away from the village or a town and experience the pleasure and tranquillity of silence. Only you and The God and no one else in this world to disturb you. You cant have such an opportunity to really enjoy nature like this anywhere except in Ladakh. During a moonlit night, you feel as if you are really in the heavens. The size of the full moon is much bigger at this altitude and it shines more brightly. You can read a book in the moonlight. The mountains changing colors with the change in the position of the sun during day and moon during the night present a unique beauty of these barren heights.

A tour of  Ladakh is not complete without a visit to Suru and Zanskar valleys which provide an opportunity to experience adventure tourism and white water rafting in addition to giving a very exhilarating feeling and experience worth enjoying.

A land of Lamas, Spirituality and peace is a real heaven on earth.

PARENTING AND GRANDPARENTING. PART- 2

As already discussed in part-1, parenting and grandparenting never cease to exist till we live; these only undergo a change from one to the other. The attachment (Moh) with children is responsible for the propagation of life on this planet. Just think for a while, if the parents don’t care about the new-born babies, the life will come to an end. Nature creates attachment in the hearts of parents and grandparents for the baby before he or she takes birth. From day one nature provides the new-born with two permanent and dedicated caretakers in the form of mother and father, who sacrifice their everything for the upbringing of their child. Nature creates milk in the breasts of the mother on the birth of new-born so that he can be fed till he is able to take solid food. The moment he needs solid food,  nature gives teeth to the baby and when he needs more hard food, the delicate milk teeth are replaced automatically with the set of hard teeth. Nature has its own way of working and it works through the medium of its creation.

Anyway, the aim of good parenting is to shape the future of the child in such a way that he is able to face the world with courage and contribute a lot to the welfare of the future generations as well as to the nation, and to the mankind.

The initial five years of child’s life are very crucial. He makes a lot of efforts to learn to speak, sit, stand, walk, play, interact and understand many things including pre-nursery education. By nature, he is a keen watcher and a fast learner, parents have therefore to be very cautious about their child. No quarreling, no shouting, no harsh words, no punishments for and before your child. Always remain positive, friendly, and cool before him. Teach him to respect elders, socialize with people, obey elders, avoid arguments, give suitable time to his studies and playing games. He should be taught, rather encouraged to share his toys and eatables with other family members and friends. Sharing and caring can be taught only at this age. When he is to go to school, do take care of his health and hygiene. Teach him to wash hands before and after meals, clean his nose whenever required with a handkerchief. Do help him in taking bath and using the toilet till he learns to do the same.

From the sixth year onwards the child learns a lot about his family, relatives, friends, and surroundings. The child at this stage needs to be disciplined and his thought and energies properly channelized. He should be encouraged to follow a proper daily routine, like going to bed, getting up early, a little morning walk or exercise, taking a bath, getting ready for school in time, checking his school bag to ensure that all necessary books, notebooks, lunchbox, water bottle etc are properly kept inside. After school, do interact with him to make him comfortable so that before taking his meals he is off from the school fatigue. Help him in getting fresh and in changing his clothes. Give him time for playing, watching a programme of his choice on TV, help him in completing his homework. Both parents, as well as grandparents, should be quite friendly with them and understand their weaknesses and strong points, as only then they will be in a position to provide good counseling and support for the overall development in their child’s character and behavior. They should take care, recognize, and appreciate the interests and choices of their children. The children at this stage must be made to understand the difference between a good and a bad touch as well as the way to react in case of such an eventuality. 

During the period of juvenility, there is an element of the immaturity of thought and conduct in the behavior of a child. This period is very crucial in the life of a child. Parents, as well as grandparents, need to keep a strict and secret watch on the behavior and activities of their child especially in the present times when everything is available on the internet with the press of a button. Give more time to the child, be more friendly with them and keep them engaged in studies, games, and other extracurricular activities so that they don’t remain idle. It is always advisable to engage the child in the decision making on small family issues and give recognition to their point of view so that they feel their importance and remain attached to the family. Please remember that an idle man’s brain is devil’s workshop. Don’t let his mind become a Devil’s workshop. This is a stage when the parents may have to be strict sometimes in order to discipline their child. The old proverb  ‘Spare the rod and spoil the child’ is to be kept in mind by the parents. The grandparents at this stage should not interfere with the hard decisions of the child’s parents and rather should keep cool.

Parents have sometimes to take tough decisions in the interests of their child and the child being more close and comfortable with the grandparents, may try to attract their sympathies and support in order to oppose the decision and behavior of his parents towards him. Grandparents should never support the child, instead, they should, politely and with love, try to make the child understand the point of view of his parents and support the view in the overall interests of the child.

Once the child becomes major and completes his education, do provide him support and guidance for choosing and starting his career……………   Then the marriage of the child and his life takes a new turn. Shortly the parents will become grandparents and the grandparents will become great-grandparents or the Gone-grandparents and the Life will keep on changing positions. Please keep on passing the family values and traditions to the future generations. Family traditions and the family values are the roots which must remain strong to keep the family tree growing and developing.

PARENTING AND GRANDPARENTING. Part- 1

Good Parenting is the most important duty of all the parents or would-be parents and similarly, grandparenting too is of great importance and a joyful experience for the grandparents, if they are lucky enough to get the opportunity to provide this support. Its importance lies in the fact that you, as parents, are providing the family their successors and to the nation its future. For a successful and bright future of the family as well as that of the nation, the parents, as well as the grandparents, have to bring up their generations into healthy, intelligent, and positive minded citizens.

The parenting and the grandparenting start from the day one of the conceiving of the baby and doesn’t end despite the fact that children grow as adults and become self-sufficient, get married and start living independently. It is a lifelong process because children will remain as children for their parents, irrespective of their age or status, till their parents are alive. The parents at some stage take on the responsibility of grandparenting and this circle goes on repeating from generation to generation. So, in a way, parenting and grandparenting keep on changing positions with time.

Parenting as well as grandparenting needs to be taken very seriously and not casually. It should be done with the same spirit as a Worship, Tapasya, or an Ebadat and nothing less than that.

Role of parents and grandparents during the period between conceiving and the delivery.

The parents especially the would-be mother has to take care of her health and hygiene particularly during the period of conceiving and the delivery. She should be provided simple but nutritious food. Junk, spicy and very hot food, as well as very cold beverages/liquids, should be avoided. She should remain active and in good mood, all the times, and avoid any tension. Her husband and his parents especially the mother should make all efforts to keep the expecting mother tension free and provide full support to keep her happy and cheerful.

During this period the expecting mothers undergo many physical and emotional changes, which may be their first experience. The senior lady(Mother or mother in law) has to provide support and advice in order to keep her tension free. There should be complete harmony in the family and frictions if any should be avoided.

Proper health care has to be provided with a regular checkup by a qualified gynecologist. The course of medicines advised by the doctor should be properly followed. The lady should avoid lifting of heavy load, frisk walking and driving on bumpy roads.

As each and every action and mood of the would-be mother has a strong and lasting effect on the child’s shaping, character, and behavior, so the entire family needs to keep the would-be mother always in good spirits and mood with positivity in her thinking process. Photographs of great men of character, healthy and smiling babies, Saints and Sufis, and beautiful pictures be displayed in the bedroom of the would-be mother.

The expecting mother should as far as possible avoid the use of mobile phone. Its strong signals and radiations have adverse effects on the health of the expecting mother and the baby in her womb. The habit of excessive use of mobile phone gets transformed into habits of the child. We are a witness to this attitude of infants who become addicts to the use of mobile phones from the very infanthood.

DELIVERY

Delivery is the most crucial moment in the life of a mother as well the whole family. The entire family especially the senior ladies have to provide good advice, support, and courage to the expecting mother and be with her at this crucial juncture. The process of delivery should always be under the supervision of a qualified and experienced Gynaecologist and his team.

THE FIRST CRY

The delivery may be normal or cesarean, the labor pains in both the cases are extreme and unbearable but for GAINS  ONE HAS TO BEAR THE PAINS. Once the baby is born, his FIRST CRY makes the mother forget all pains and she gets filled with extreme love, satisfaction, and pride. This is the only moment when a mother smiles with happiness on the crying of her baby.

THE ROLE OF GRANDPARENTS

The role of grandparents if they are lucky to have such an opportunity, starts at this point. They have to take care of both, the mother and the child. Personal hygiene, as well as that of the newborn and his mother, should not be lost sight of at any moment. taking the newborn to the pediatrician for the first medical checkup, changing his clothes, feeding as advised by the doctor, and personal care of the mother is the duty of the grandparents. Care should be taken to not touch the newborn without disinfecting your hands. Anyone suffering from a cough, cold or any other infectious disease should be politely advised not to come near the mother and the newborn because both are more prone to infection. As far as possible the newborn should be breastfed by the mother. This needs to be encouraged in the larger interests of the baby and her mother. The room of the mother and the baby should be kept germs, mosquito, and flies free.

The lactating mother needs to be provided healthy and nourishing food, proper hygiene and medical care. Grandparents to ensure that Proper immunization is followed and the schedule is strictly adhered to. Once the mother regains her health and is able to do her daily chores, the grandparents have to support her in her daily life till she learns the art of handling her normal routine as well as the additional responsibility of handling the infant. Henceforth the role of grandparents is only to play with the toddler. It is very difficult for these senior citizens to be away from the newly born, even for a minute. The grandchildren too in their turn like to play and remain with their grandparents, because they find them more accommodating than their parents.

Playing with the grandchildren is a fun of supreme pleasure. You both forget all etiquettes of normal behavior. People with toothless mouth and face full of wrinkles, make funny faces to make their grandchildren burst into laughter. Doing this, again and again, may look awkward to people around, but who bothers this damn? You drive pleasure and happiness from the natural smiles and waves of laughter of your grandchildren. Have you ever thought as to why they laugh with so much ease on looking at your funny faces? They, in fact, consider you as their big living toys and the biggest jokers on this planet. Do you mind being branded so? You can’t; as contrarily you love to be so for the love and happiness of your grandchildren.

They will catch hold of your nose, ears or hair. They may touch your boned cheeks with their tender hands, thus sending waves of intense love and satisfaction down your spine. You love to play with them and derive enjoyment as much as they do. Do you know why? It is because both of you are birds of the same flock; both are very near to The God. They have just separated from Him and you are about to go to His lap. This nearness to the universal Father is a unique attribute which connects you both with love and tranquility.

Do supplement breastfeeding with other baby foods if required and start giving semisolid or solid food after six months. Take care to provide calcium doses at the time of teething of babies. Go for regular medical checkups. Provide good toys especially which provide education and help build good thinking processes. Massaging the child is important as it provides flexibility and good flow of blood in the veins. It should be done regularly.

Babies learn very fast. They see you speaking and try to move their tongue in order to make a sound. They imitate your movements and behavior in order to learn as to how to walk, move, talk and do other things. It is very important to maintain or to showcase good behavior in the family because the child will always have an eye on you all, and will learn and copy the styles of your behavior; howsoever good or bad those may be. So in a way, he is helping you to mend your ways. It is therefore advisable to behave well with all in the family and around in order to imbibe good qualities in your would be generations. ……………..To be continued in part -2.

 

 

THE DESERTED MANSIONS

From the time immemorial, Man has been building big mansions to live in happily for himself and for the generations to come. He has been building big castles and strong forts for his safety and security.

But has he achieved his desired objectives? If we look at those huge ruins today, we find the dwellers missing. These deserted mansions are dying slowly but steadily. Have the strong forts and big castles saved his life from death?

All these huge buildings are decaying, crumbling, and being consumed by insects as there is no one to take care of them. Wild bushes and big trees have taken roots in their sturdy walls and roofs. Once magnificent mansions, have now become a home for the rats, bats, vampires, cats, and monkeys. Some of these, once beautiful structures, are now haunted by the ghosts. The beautiful and priceless paintings in the magnificent halls and rooms are covered with spider webs and dust; no one to appreciate their beauty and take care of their maintenance. Has the person who got them built with so much wealth and passion, ever thought of the fate, his proud possessions would one day meet with such a pitiable condition? If by chance he again comes to human life with all his old passion and memory and visits his choicest possessions: Can anyone imagine how he would feel? He would definitely repent as to why he committed such a great blunder in his life……

Humans have the tendency of ignoring the history and trying to derive satisfaction and happiness from the huge possessions. Instead of achieving satisfaction and happiness from the possessions, they become restless while creating such possessions. Their cravings for more and more keep them toiling restlessly and sometimes they have to sacrifice the values of life and good principles of humanity. How can one derive happiness and satisfaction by such means? This is the dilemma of life and a Mirage which keeps one running until the end.

Happiness and satisfaction are not in the possessions, but these are in the contentment. A man with a contented heart is the richest of all and the  one with greed and discontented heart is worst than a beggar even if he has abundant of wealth. We should take a lesson from the history and lead a simple and contented life and should always thank the Almighty for whatever he has bestowed upon us.

Whatever you can use in your life is actually yours. What you keep on possessing without using is a waste; for others to use. One keeps on building mansions, forgetting that lifespan is very short and he may not get the opportunity to enjoy his living in those mansions which he created with so much toil.

If we take a look at the present times, nothing seems to have changed. There is no dearth of big mansions which are empty as there is no one to live in. Those for whom, their ancestors had built these huge buildings have either migrated to other cities or abroad for their living.

We care more about our future generations than for ourselves,  little realizing that if we are able enough to live our life comfortably as per socialistic and societal standards , will our  future generation not be able to do anything for themselves? Why such a negative thought takes root in our mind? If we could do something ourselves, Our future generations would do better than us. With such a positive attitude, live your life happily lest you may have to repent afterward.

PAINS OF RETIRED LIFE

Pleasures and pains go side by side. Every coin has two sides. The day is followed by night and winters by summers. Everything attracts its opposite and the cycle of nature goes on moving. Nothing remains stationary in this world. Change is the secret which sustains life. Changes may be positive or negative and we have to bear both with a bowed head as there is no escape.

The pains of retired life is a mix of crunches of both retired life and of old age because incidentally, the retirement generally happens at a comparatively advanced stage of the age. The pleasures and sense of freedom one can enjoy under certain circumstances is already discussed in the previous blog published on 9th Feb,2018. The pains of retired life/old age can be :-

  • Health issues of self and that of the spouse.
  • Change in attitude of associates, relatives, and friends towards you.
  • No pension or inadequate pension to meet day to day needs.
  • No one to take care in case of an emergency.
  • Pending family settlements and liabilities.
  • Children not suitably settled.
  • Depression because there is no work to substantiate abundant free time.

The only solution to all these problems is to live to the will of Lord and change your own attitude towards life. We are not the masters of everything and might not be destined to finish every so-called liability during our lifetime. There is always something pending for others to complete or accomplish.

Life is full of struggles from day one until the end. We did struggle to speak, sit, crawl, and walk when we were infants. Struggle for learning, understanding various fields and activities kept us engaged throughout our school to college and university days. We further intensified our struggle to build our careers. And now at this old age, Can we avoid making struggles? We have to continue struggling until the end with a Positive Mental Attitude.

The sufferings and pains are part of life for all of us. Health issues are a cause for concern especially at the old age when many vital organs get fatigued, become weak and can’t give the required output to keep our body healthy. Our body is a very complicated machine and consists of thousands of working parts and millions of cells. These have been working tirelessly for so many years. Parts of any machine do get worn out and need replacement, which in case of the human body are a  very costly affair and in some cases not possible. We have to bear with this, as there is no other way out. It is advisable to get medical insurance done in order to take care of heavy expenses in case of an emergency.

After one is out of power he should not expect his associates, relatives, and friends to flock him the way they were doing when he was in power. Our relationships of all types are because of some need or dependence which is a bitter truth. Once that need is fulfilled or we lose the capacity to meet people’s needs, they will start disassociating from us, in the same manner, we did with our associates, relatives, and friends when they lost power or capacity to help us. Needs and interests are the basis of many relationships with few exceptions.  Who will then come to our rescue in such state of affairs in this world? Only Lord is our hope. He loves us more than anybody else and that too without any expectations from us. SO CHANGE YOUR ATTITUDE, DO NOT CARRY BAGGAGE,  FACE THE SITUATION WITH POSITIVE MINDSET, AND LEAVE EVERYTHING TO THE WILL OF LORD. Unnecessarily taking these things seriously will only make you more uncomfortable leading to Stress or Depression. Ignore people who ignore you and stop bothering about them.

You must make financial arrangements for the rainy days of your life while in active service/job. You are bound to suffer humiliation in case you don’t have regular and adequate resources to meet your needs. Stay with your children or relatives if you can manage or go to an old age home. All of us have to bear our KARMAS; no escape. Your children or close relative may not be able to devote more time to you because of their own compulsions. Stay calm and contended and thank GOD that at least they are with you.

Settle your liabilities well in time otherwise, you will remain worrying when you will become unable to settle them. You can’t make hay when the sun is not shining. Try your best to settle your children well in time. However, if you could not do, don’t worry as your worry will not help. It will only add more wrinkles to your face and help you to increase your stress, blood pressure, and depression. You played your inning well and now it is their turn to earn and take care of you.

Please understand that all of us have to pass through pleasures and pains while we are in this human body. We have to bear our own Cross as this world is run by one universal principle ‘AS YOU SO, SO SHALL YOU REAP’. When Lord Rama, Lord Krishna, Hazrat Mohammad Sahib(PBUH), Guru Nanak Dev Ji and other Gurus suffered and fought battles with the evil, how can you be an exception? During the battle of Mahabharat Pandavas fought with their own brothers; The Kauravas. This signifies that the evil is within us and we have to fight it within. Arjun the great warrior surrendered to Lord Krishna and gave the reins of his chariot to Him and shot arrows in the direction Lord Krishna moved the chariot. Have we ever surrendered control of the chariot of our life to Lord and fought the battle of life ourselves? Instead, we hold the reins in our hands and want the Lord to fight for us. This will not work.  We have to live up to His will and remain satisfied because both pains and pleasures come with His will.

The Fifth Sikh Guru, Guru Arjan Dev Ji Maharaj, was being tortured by making him sit on the hot iron plate and boiling water was poured on his head and before being martyred, you know what he said? “Tera bhana meetha lage”, Means “Oh my Lord All this is happening with your will and your will is sweet to me”.

When Jesus Christ was mercilessly tortured before being crucified, He prayed to GOD and said,”O GOD forgive them because they don’t know what they are doing”. This is the level of tolerance that is expected for attaining peace and tranquility.

 

So, remain contended in whatever circumstances the Lord keeps you. He will always give us what is to our benefit; a chocolate or a bitter medicine. He knows well, so don’t fear or worry even about your death. You don’t have much time at your disposal so live to the hour. No time to worry. Keep on doing good and remain happy. Let God worry about you.

PLEASURES OF RETIRED LIFE

The golden period of your life starts when you retire from the active service or from active business/profession. This is the period when you can enjoy the Life as per your own choice and with full freedom without any worries, provided:-

  • You have Settled all your liabilities during the active period of your life.
  • Your children have settled professionally and personally.
  • You have a place to live which you can call your own Home; with your family who cares for you.
  • You have suitable pension or an accumulated pension fund to meet your needs.
  • And above all, You and Your spouse have maintained Good Health and a good understanding of each other.

If you look back to your pre-retirement days; You were so tight scheduled and having no time for your life partner, no time for family trips or even pilgrimage. You were always requesting leaves so that you could share time with your loved ones but the boss always frowned upon you with most typical lines,”You have so much of  pending work, how can you even think of going on leave???” and You listened to all this with a bowed head out of sheer compulsion. Your blood pressure rose during supervisor’s visits and his reprimands. The multitasking activities both in office and at home kept you under constant stress. Even when you tried to calm your mind through meditation and tried your best to concentrate, you couldn’t because the angry face of your boss always occupied the upper layers of your mind. You were more loyal to the ticking sound of your clock or the office or factory siren than anything else in this universe.

Now the Life is completely different after retirement, you are free from all those shackles, pulls and pressures? Don’t you now feel yourself nearer to GOD than ever before? Now you have enough time for everything of your choice. Now you are the boss of your own wishes and wills. You are now a free bird, so enjoy your flight of life like a bird. Keep on chirping, land at places you like, eat what you like to eat, and dance with your partner the way you both like.

Now, this is the time for you to enjoy the fruits and charms of freedom. Is not this amazing that the entire twenty-four hours of the day and all three hundred sixty-five and a quarter days of the year are your’s and your’s only? Every day is a holiday; a holiday for which you had to wait for five to six days in a week and you were never sure if the boss would call you on holiday for some urgent work. All your plans to enjoy on the weekly off used to be marred by such compulsions. Now no compulsions, as you are boss of your own self, so enjoy, enjoy and enjoy only. Remove all, from the life that comes between you and your happiness, your peace of mind, and GOD; be it a dispute, grudge, hate, anger or a complex.

Always try to remain happy and fearless. Don’t interfere in the affairs of others especially your own children. You may give advice if asked for, but let them have their own way. Don’t try to squeeze the generation gap as it will generate reactions and disturb your and family harmony.

Always be on the path of truth and don’t fear anything, not even your death. Whatever has to happen will happen; you can’t change it, then why worry; face it smilingly. At the same time don’t take much liberty of your freedom because everything will not happen as per your choice  Everyone can’t have similar choices and wishes, these differ from person to person, so let GOD decide what to do for you. The BIG BOSS is boss of the whole universe and loves us all. He takes care of all of us so don’t doubt his intentions. The best is, to surrender before Him and live to His will. You can’t change circumstances but you can change your attitude, so change it according to the times and always remain positive.

You are at the ripe age, so remember that you are the most beautiful human being. A fruit is more beautiful when it is ripe and so are you. Feel this beauty inside and outside you. Don’t expose yourself to risks such as investments in share markets, crypto currencies, Ponzi schemes or in any scheme of volatile nature because a ripe fruit can’t afford to withstand the winds and jerks of risks.

You are now more close to nature. Grow plants and watch them sprout out of the soil, and then growing into plants with tiny and shining leaves, flowering with magnificent colors and then bearing fruits and seeds. The pearl-like tiny dew drops on the leaves of plants and the grass in the morning are an amazing miracle to see.

Some people complain that they have too much spare time so they get bored. Getting bored in the twenty-first century is an impossible proposition. Make use of eighth and ninth wonders of the world if you luckily have both. The eighth wonder is your spouse who in spite being illiterate or less qualified, or even more qualified than you, remained with you through thick and thin when all nears and dears left you in adversity. You at this age have an exceptional understanding of each other. No one understands your mood, feelings and needs better than your better half. How beautifully she/he adjusts to every situation however difficult it may be. Is not that great wonder?

Your mobile phone is the ninth wonder of the world. Through the internet, you remain connected with the whole world. You can have any information available with the touch of a button. You can play games, read books of all types, see pictures of cities and places of the world over, watch movies and listen to music of your choice, share greetings and other messages with your friends and talk face to face with your relatives and friends living in any part of the globe.

So enjoy your retired life in a Smart Way. Don’t remain stuck to TV or mobile phone or your bed. Go for morning and evening walks even if for short distances. Do talk to and play with your grandchildren whenever you are with them. Play with kids of your locality. This will bring freshness and spirit of youthfulness in you.

You are lucky if you are enjoying Retired life, so thank God and keep smiling, meet friends, associates. Do some social service for the society without any considerations. Each day is a bonus for you. No one knows how much time we will get to stay in this beautiful world, so make the best use of whatever little time you have at your disposal. Do as much good as you can and remain as much contended as possible.

 

 

 

 

 

NATURE’s EQUILIBRIUM

We The Humans, who claim to be the finest of God’s creations and the most civilized ones; are in fact lacking many qualities which others creatures in lower forms of life have. We claim that we trust God but the fact is, that we don’t trust him fully.

No other creature on this planet is as dexterous as Humans when it comes to securing the tomorrow needs. We keep on hoarding as much wealth and other materialistic things as possible for us whereas all other creatures have full faith in HIM-The Almighty that he will arrange food for them when required. Humans are the only species on this globe which cultivates crops and other victual item but we accumulate them and don’t like to share with other Fellow Humans.

Have your ever observed the behavior of Crows when they find Food; the Crows start crowing loudly, inviting all the fellow crows to come and share the food with them.

This Ungenerous Human behavior is out of fear as to what will happen if there is no Food left on earth tomorrow. Have we ever thought when God takes care of the whole universe and its creatures, how can he forget to take care of a race which is most near and dear to him? Are we not prodigal sons? You must have heard of a prodigal son but have you ever heard of a prodigal father?

We kill birds, animals, reptiles for our food and don’t even hesitate to kill humans during wars or otherwise in order to prove our supremacy over others. Animals also kill but they kill to satisfy their hunger. We the humans resort to organized killings of our own race just because of anger, hate, and, intolerance and for that, we produce lethal weapons, ammunition, ballistic missiles, intercontinental missiles, atom bombs and other weapons of Mass Destruction. There is no other field where we have made as much progress as we have made in the creation of instruments of Mass Destruction. We explode crackers, bombs and other fireworks to mark celebrations which in turn creates a lot of pollution. Use of Air conditioners, Heaters, Automobiles, Airplanes, Electronic gadgets, and Chemical factories create a lot of pollution and contribute to Global Warming, which is a cause of worry for all of us. We all understand the consequences of increasing pollution and Global Warming. The world community also seems concerned about this danger and this issue is the hot topic of discussion these days in almost all the Highest Forums but Have we stopped manufacturing and using the items which create Pollution and Global Warming? The answer certainly is a big “NO”. WE THE DESCENDANTS OF ADAM AND EVE ARE USED TO EATING THE FORBIDDEN FRUITS. The man has already created holes in the Ozone layer and stockpiled atomic weapons. We have not even stopped the further production and God forbid if these go off at any time, then what will happen is well known to all of us.

God loves us all more than we love him so He will never bring “ROZ-E- QAYAMAT” OR GREAT DISSOLUTION. Its only we the so called Humans, will be responsible for it.

Huge resources are consumed for satisfying our urge to have supremacy in the field of the destruction of our own race. These resources if used for the welfare of mankind can remove poverty from the globe forever. We produce and use pesticides, insecticides and chemical fertilizers to kill pests and insects in order to produce more crop and fruits, little realizing that it adversely affects our own health as well as the fertility of the soil. All other creatures live upon natural products and that too in very less number, but can you just make a guess as to how many items we need for our daily life. The number may go up to thousands; and then the way we cook, fry, roast, bake, marinate and so on and so on….with no end. We eat for taste and not for nutrition. The end result is DISEASES and AILMENTS and in order to treat these, we consume more chemical compounds in form of MEDICINES; bitter enough to neutralize the taste we had from our choicest cuisines. Medicines do cure but have many adverse effects on our Body. We need doctors and surgeons to take care of our health. Do any other creatures need all this? Who takes care of them? It is only LORD because they trust and have full faith in HIM.

God designed this beautiful creation and asked mankind to go and enjoy his creation. He has created everything for us, but certainly not for any misuse or for the destruction of his beautiful creation, or for disturbing the beautiful balance of nature. If we disturb the balance of nature, nature will react and disturb our balance, leading to a catastrophe. Every other creature except humans contributes to the maintenance of Ecological and Environmental balance but we the Humans, who despite having the Super-intelligence bestowed upon us by our LORD, leave no stone un-turned to disturb it.

Why can’t we trust and realize his scheme of things? Don’t we see his beautiful Water Management System? He creates conditions to convert water into clouds, transports it from the oceans to the whole of the globe. Again reconverts it into the water for maintaining the ecology,  environment, and life on the globe. He fills all reservoirs like ponds, lakes etc. for our future use and also creates reserves in the form of snow and glaciers. He created a mixture of useful gases around the globe for sustaining life. He kept minerals in the bosom of the earth for creating a balance and for our proper use. Is the magnificent gravitational force which keeps us comfortably bound to the earth, not a miracle? Why the gravitational force is not present on other planets? Is it not that wonderful? Humans were bestowed with the sense of comprehension to realize GOD but they are misusing this intellect to disturb His beautiful creation.

Still, there is time to listen to his commandments and imbibe the qualities of the Creator and stop listening to the voice of SATAN or SHAITAAN i.e. the negative energies surrounding us. The natural state of this God designed System is the perfect state and it is the best for us to leave it undisturbed. We need to mend our ways and make life worth living peacefully and with a lot of Happiness and Bliss.